In Celebration of

Shugie Budd nee Dianna Wilson

December 20, 1960 -  July 20, 2022

It is with broken hearts and great sorrow that we announce the sudden passing of an incredible woman, Shugie Budd (née Dianna Allison Wilson), on July 20th, 2022, at the young age of sixty-one.

She was the beloved wife and best friend of Mark Budd Sr. for 36 years (partners for 46 years) and together they had three children that she adored: Melanie (Jason), Mark Jr. (Lennie) and Stephen (Julie). Shugie was also the oh-so-very-proud Nanny of Cody, Logan, Xander, Lilianne and Devon.

Shugie was born on December 20th 1960 in Sainte-Rose, QC. She was the daughter of the late Dale Wilson (Grace Wilson) and the late Grace Barry. She was the 6th of 7 children, sister to Barry (Bonny), the late Bill, Missy (Barrie), Jack (Kathy), Lynda (Darcy) and Ron (Arlene).

Shugie was a true matriarch, the glue of her family, and her husband and children have many happy memories of weekend adventures and wonderful holidays together. She took pleasure in going over the top decorating for Halloween and Christmas, the former being her favorite. Shugie and Mark shared a deep love, completing one another. They built a beautiful life together, all starting from the tender age of 15, when they first met. She was always “game” to all of Mark’s crazy ideas and together they went on many adventures and worked on hundreds of creative projects. She cared deeply for her children, always encouraging them to pursue their passions but especially their happiness, which is all she ever hoped for them. She was the kind of mother-in-law that most can only dream of, treating her son-in-law and daughter-in-law like one of her own from the very first time she met each of them. Later in life, her grandchildren became her pride and joy. She absolutely delighted in spoiling them, holding them tightly and covering them from head to toe in her “Nanny kisses”. Her spirit will live on through them.

Some of her favorite things to do were to sit by a fire in the evening listening to Mark tell stories or play the guitar. Shugie would blame her wrinkles on Mark, because he made her laugh so much. That's a good life! She also was mesmerized by wildlife, notably the beautiful birds in her many bird feeders and the deer that she would see at either her home in Saint-Ours or most recently in Mandeville.

Shugie loved everybody she met. She was always genuinely interested in all the people she would meet, enjoyed hearing stories about people's lives and converse with different walks of life. Her famous signature was her extra-tight, extra-long hugs. Anyone who knew Shugie, knows this hug. You were extra lucky if you were part of the few that she would whisper her affection for while giving this amazing hug.

Shugie loved nothing more fiercely than her family, who were her entire world. She leaves her husband, children, grand-children, siblings, nieces and nephews and many friends in utter loss and mourning.

The family will receive condolences during the visitation in presence of the ashes at the Belvedere Funeral Complex, 22025 Trans-Canada Highway, Senneville, Quebec, H9X 0B2, 514 457-4440 on Sunday, August 14th from 1-3pm. The memorial service will take place at 3pm followed by a gathering for friends and family to share memories.
For those who cannot attend in person, you may attend the service virtually using the following link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83066767302 . A recording of the memorial service will also be available at a later date.
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C’est avec le cœur brisé et une profonde tristesse que nous vous annonçons le décès subit d’une femme incroyable, Shugie Budd (née Dianna Allison Wilson), ce 20 juillet 2022, à l’âge de soixante et un ans.
Elle était l’épouse bien-aimé et amie de Mark Budd Sr. pour 36 ans de mariage et 46 ans de vie partagée. Ils ont eu ensemble trois enfants, qu’elle adorait: Melanie (Jason), Mark Jr. (Lennie) et Stephen (Julie). Shugie était également la très fière Nanny de Cody, Logan, Xander, Lilianne et Devon.
Shugie est née le 20 décembre 1960 à Ste-Rose, Qc. Elle était la fille de feu Dale Wilson (Grace Wilson) et de feu Grace Barry. Elle était la 6ème de 7 enfants, donc la sœur de Barry (Bonny), de feu Bill, de Missy (Barrie), de Jack (Kathy), Lynda (Darcy) et Ron (Arlene).
Shugie était la matriarche, le ciment de sa famille. Son époux et ses enfants ont de nombreux souvenirs des aventures de fins de semaine et des magnifiques vacances passées ensemble. Elle prenait un plaisir immense à décorer comme pas une pour ses fêtes favorites d’Halloween et Noël.
Shugie et Mark partageaient un amour profond. Ils étaient complémentaires. Ils ont su se construire une vie merveilleuse ensemble et ce, depuis leur tous débuts, à leur rencontre dans leur tendre quinzaine. Shugie était toujours partante pour les idées folles de Mark et ensemble ils partagèrent plusieurs aventures et travaillèrent sur des centaines de projets créatifs. Elle prenait bien soin de ses enfants et les encourageait toujours à poursuivre leurs passions, mais plus spécifiquement leur bonheur, qui était son vœu le plus cher pour eux. Elle était la belle-mère idéale qui, dès la première rencontre, traitait les partenaires de ses enfants comme les siens. L’arrivée des petits-enfants dans sa vie lui procura une fierté et une joie immense. Elle était ravie de les gâter, de les serrer fort et de les couvrir des « baisers de Nanny » de la tête aux pieds. Son esprit continuera à vivre à travers eux.
Une chose qu’elle aimait faire, c’était de s’assoir près du feu, le soir, et d’écouter Mark raconter ses histoires ou jouer de la guitare. Shugie mettait la faute sur Mark pour ses rides, car la faisait rire constamment. Quelle belle vie! Elle était fascinée par la vie sauvage, particulièrement les beaux oiseaux qui se nourrissaient dans ses mangeoires et des chevreuils qu’elle apercevait à la maison de St-Ours ou plus récemment à Mandeville.
Shugie aimait toutes les personnes qu’elle rencontrait. Elle était toujours sincèrement intéressée par la vie des gens et se réjouissait d’écouter les histoires et de discuter sur les différents parcours de chacun. Ses étreintes serrées et très longue étaient sa marque de commerce. Tous ceux qui la connaissent savent de quoi il s’agit. Vous êtes privilégiés si vous avez reçu de tels câlins et qu’elle vous chuchotait son affection à l’oreille.
Rien n’était plus important au monde que sa famille, que Shugie adorait. Elle laisse derrière elle son époux, ses enfants, ses petits-enfants, ses frères, ses sœurs, ses nièces, ses neveux ainsi que de nombreux amis épleurés et endeuillés par cette perte.
La famille recevra les condoléances dimanche 14 août 2022 de 13h à 15h au complexe funéraire Belvédère, 22025 Transcanadienne, Senneville, Québec, H9X 0B2, 514 457-4440. Une célébration de sa vie suivra au même endroit à 15h.
Pour ceux qui ne pourraient se joindre à nous par leur présence, vous êtes invités à assister virtuellement à la cérémonie par le biais de la plateforme ZOOM : https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83066767302. La célébration sera enregistrée et disponible à une date ultérieure.

Guestbook 

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Janet miller (Friend)

Entered August 3, 2022 from Dorval

Mel and family so so sorry our deepest condolences to all of you. Your mom was really special and welcome all. Janet and Trevor xxoo

Daniel & Normande Duguay (Ami)

Entered August 3, 2022 from Sorel Tracy

Nous sommes vraiment désolé d'apprendre cette triste nouvelle nous sommes de tout coeur avec toi Mark et tes proches nos plus sinceres condoléances

Connie Janacek (Mother of my son-in-law, Steve,. Mother-in-Law of my Daughter, Julie,)

Entered August 10, 2022 from Montreal

Shuggie,
You were a Wonderful Person, and will be dearly missed.xxx
To Your Family,
Those we Love, Don't go away,
They walk beside us every day.
Unseen, Unheard, But always near,
Still Loved, Still Missed and very Dear.
Time will heal your pain, and remember,.
She will always remain in your Memories,
and In your Hearts Forever.
xxx


Amy Grauer 

Entered August 14, 2022 from Montreal

Shugie was a beautiful soul and will be sorely missed. I was honored to have met and known her for many years. Many years and fond memories that will live on in pictures. Was a beautiful service and tribute to who she was as a person. A loving and caring mother, and the best nanny to her grandbabies. May she Rest In Peace. Till we meet again. Xx

Julie (Bourke) Budd (Daughter-in-law)

Entered August 15, 2022 from Montreal

To my husband Stephen - I love you and you are so strong. We will miss her so much every single day for the rest of our lives.

To Senior, Mel and Stephen - The memorial we gave her was so beautiful, I know she was looking down, smiling and thanking us for honouring and loving her so.

To everyone who came to support our family - Thank You. Your presence meant everything and it also showed how loved she was.

I've already posted the following words on my social media but I wanted it documented here as well...

My beautiful, sweet mother in law left us, suddenly and without any warning. There are no words to describe the sadness permeating our entire beings. To have known Shugie is to have known LOVE. I feel incredibly blessed that she was my mother in law, the best any girl could ask for. I got to feel her love from the very first time I met her, 19 years ago. She loved her family so fiercely, I can’t even describe it. When she hugged you, it was a tight extra long hug. She would always whisper so softly and sincerely in my ear “I love you so so very much my Juliebear”. She would hold her grandbabies tightly and close her eyes. She wouldn’t let go, she would take it all in without any attention to the world around her. Just loving on those sweet children that were her world. She would cover them in her “Nanny kisses” smooching them all over while giggling with them. It’s because of her that I have my incredible husband, for whom my heart is aching more than it has ever ached. She taught him love, kindness and that family meant everything. We will never ever get through this or over this but I guess we will need to learn how to live with this. It’s not going to be easy, but we will be strong for her memory and because she would want us to be strong. She would want us to be happy and live with love in our hearts and this is what we will strive for everyday. Hold your loved ones tightly and tell them you love them often. As often as you can. Be annoying with it. You never know when the last time will be. 💗 Rest In Peace my beautiful Mamabear, I love you so so very much💗

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